We have started this blog so that those who would like to share their thoughts, memories, and feelings can do so. Please post them in the comments section. It is our hope that this blog will become a great tribute to a man who always made it a point to be in the right place, doing what he was supposed to be doing.
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The Roland Trump Family
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I am Brett Munns, I moved to Centerville, and Roland was the only person who accepted me, I went to church and was not very well accepted, and he ended up coming over to my house and found out that I enjoyed to play basketball. He than invited me over to play ball against him, he got me into playing church basketball and he was the fairest coach I have ever had! He blessed my life in so many ways, that I couldn't of ever repayed him in any way, He left money when I was in need, Gave me a job when I had nothing. Roland was a guy who just has the heart of a handicap kid, They never complain and neither did Roland. I just wanted to say he made me love him. He's a great guy and I am sure even a greater father.
ReplyDeleteI am Roland's son in law--I married Sara. I have only known Roland for seven years, but he has been one the most influential men in my life. One of his most charming and comforting traits was his ability to embrace an individual, while lifting them up to be better in the eyes of God. Roland will always remain an example to me as the quintessential worker. He use to say to me "the honest thing to do is to go to work". Nevertheless, I have never laughed so hard and enjoyed life more than when he was telling his jokes.
ReplyDeleteLastly, and most importantly, Roland was an amazing father. In this respect, he was extremely Christ-like and long suffering. It never mattered how far you strayed, Roland welcomed you back with no strings attached. Combined with his wife, who helped him develop these traits, they make some of the most amazing parents one could ask for.
Mike MacKay
I grew up in Centerville where my best friend was Roland's daughter, Maggie. We'd play at their house almost every night, had many sleepovers, and Roland was more than accomodating.
ReplyDeleteOne of my favorite memories of Roland is when he would take us four-wheeling in what used to be the dirt field beneath my home. He knew how to make us laugh, and it was never a dull moment. I remember him as the ward prankster, putting duct tape across our front door to see if we'd get our heads to stick and driving across our lawn in the snow, leaving tracks in his wake.
It goes without saying that he was a wonderful father. Without his love for his children and accepting so many into his home, I would not have had Maggie to pull me through so many hard times. I thank him from the bottom of my heart for the many gifts he has given in my life.
Jenn Woolf
My name is Heather Bennett, but the Trump family would know me better as Heather Woolf (that's my sister's comment above). Like Jenn said we grew up in the same ward as Roland, and I always admired him for his kindness and sense of humor. I remember once being in Young Women when we had an activity at Temple Square. Roland was with us and as we walked past a homeless man whom most people would have ignored, Roland stopped to speak to him with kind works and offered to give him some work. That experience really affected me and I never forgot it. He was a wonderful example of kindness and a believer in the value of hard work.
ReplyDeleteMy favorite memory of Roland is how he used to always call me "President" when I would come home from college and visit my parents' ward. Often at church he would pass me and say "How you doing, President?" I earned this nickname from him because he found out I was writing a missionary (my future husband Bret) and he said that made me "President of the Lonely Hearts Club." It always made me smile.
We will miss you, Roland!
I am Stephen Trump's wife, Janice. The memory I want to share about Roland happened less than two weeks ago. I went to visit him with my son, Carson (8 years old) and the visit meant a lot to Carson and I. Roland doted on Carson, let him choose a toy car to take home, and patiently listened to Carson's endless stories. It was obvious Roland was having trouble breathing and was tired, but he made Carson feel like there was nothing else he would rather be doing than spending time with him. On the ride home, Carson asked if we could go back the next day. Then, with tears in his eyes, he said, "I'm really sad that Roland is going to go be with Grandpa (Ronald) Trump, because we won't get to see him anymore." Roland was a great example to my entire family of strength, humor, courage, and love. He will be greatly missed.
ReplyDeleteI am Roldands daughter Suelyn. My dad fed the homeless, helped people in our ward, gave famlies christmas that couldn't afford it, left money in peoples mail boxes, he adopted 7 kids in our family plus had two of his own,he also fostered over 10 people! My dad was the greatest person and what he did changed peoples life and made a difference in ours!
ReplyDeleteMy dad always though of others first and did pay it forward everyday. He wanted the best for everyone and showed everyone how to let there light shine. He cared so much for us and others. A simple smile and a warm hug is all he ever wanted in return.
Thank you for everything you have done for me and thank you for your love to all you have met. You did make a difference in this life time and the next!!! Always loved always remebered.
Roland put up with alot being my Dads twin brother. My friends growing up would mistake him for my father. He would just politely go along with it, many times just having the kinds of shallow conversations people have in a grocery store. He knew what was going on immediately. Well, that was fine until some of my friends grew big enough to cause injury. Some of my friends liked to "play rough". He was placed at a big disadvantage because he didnt expect the person he saw running towards him to actually make contact. Luckily that mistake only happens once per friend at most! He was always a good sport and laughed.
ReplyDeleteAnother memory is that every once in a while I had a chance to work along side Roland. I always enjoyed it because he would comment throughout the day how much he appreciated my help. I can even say those days were fun, even though we were working hard. The difference was he made me feel good. He knew how to compliment a job well done, and (except the times we were pouring cement) he was fun to work with. I knew he enjoyed his job. I will dearly miss him. By the way, I am way worse than he was when I pour cement!
He was taken way too soon, but I know he has no regrets. My deepest sympathys go to all of you that are feeling his loss! Just do your best to make him proud. Love, Steve Trump
No one who knew Roland could possibly have just one memory of him. When we were young Roland placed a basketball standard at the top of his cul de sac. Every Saturday and Sunday, kids would run out from every home that had access to play and most times Roland was right there with us.
ReplyDeleteRolands commitment to church and family were impressed on me early in life when picking Adam up at the old Centerville "City Shops" from baseball practice on a Monday night. He called out to the coach and asked, "can we call it a night. It's Family Night."
Roland is a perfect example of what Heavenly Father requested from us when said, "Love one another". Thanks Roland.
My first memory of Roland was as he bore his testimony in a Fast and Testimony meeting. I believe he was in the Bishopric at that time. He was very emotional (not unusual for him), and he said he was sure that his tear ducts were connected to his bladder! :)
ReplyDeleteSweet man, a sweet family, an example for us, a true disciple of Christ.
I am Bonnie (Gallacher) Lotz. I have such fond memories of growing up in Estella circle. Living so near the Trump family was such a great blessing. They had the funnest backyard and Roland put on the BEST fireworks shows every year on the 4th of July.
ReplyDeleteI remember when I was a little girl and he would let all of the neighborhood kids pile into his big yellow bull-dozer type vehicle with the huge scoop on the front. He drove around the circle and lifted us up in the scooper. He was so fun, and often joined us for many of our kick the can games out in the middle of the circle.
He was a great man.
We lived in the ward with Roland and Suzie for many years. Every time we met Roland he had a big smile and a friendly greeting for us. Any time he bore his testimony or gave a talk we were inspired to be better people.
ReplyDeleteWe will miss him. He truly was a Cristlike man.
Sharen & Travis Campbell
First of all, let me say that Roland leaving this life has been very difficult for my wife and I. Roland has been a father,
ReplyDeleteand an example for good to me for the last twenty years. He has pretty much had a hand in shaping me into the man I am today.
It was twenty years ago that I began working for Trump Construction. I continued to work with Roland for nearly seventeen years, and may I say I loved ALMOST every minute of it. Roland has been an example of righteousness, faith, humility, and fatherhood to me. My favorite trait of Roland's is that he is always willing to help those in need. I made a promise to Roland, that I would continue to help those that truly needed my help. I am thankful that he instilled in me, the willingness to help others.
I have many memories of Roland, but one of my favorites is that of the wedding gift. When Roland found out that I was going to Las Vegas for my honeymoon, he took the time and effort to get me a large bag of nickels, dimes, and quarters. It must have taken quite and effort to get it all put together. We didn't want to be carrying a large bag of money around, so we immediately went to the bank to exchange it. The teller just smiled and said, "You must work with Roland". She spent the time getting the coins for him, now she had to spent the time to change it back to bills for me. We all had a good laugh over it when I returned back to work.
Roland will truly be missed by my family and I, but we know that he is happy and healthy now. We look forward to the day when we can see his smile again!
Remember Roland: "We are always two weeks from being unemployed"
Roger and Darlene Rees (and the boys)
Thanks for sharing Camp Steiner with us. It is a wonderful place. We saw what a great father you were and an awsome grandpa. It was great to know you and your family. Best wishes to Suzie and family left behind!
ReplyDeleteMike and Karilyn Diede
On last Christmas day, Roland asked me to do something for him. I said sure, he was my Brother-in-law after all, and I love him. He put a roll of money in my hand and said, "I always have a roll of $5 on me so I can give something to someone who really needs it. I can't do it this year, Barb, will you do it for me?"
ReplyDeleteI sure will, Roland, I will till I have to pass the roll of $5 on to someone else.
We will miss your kind and gentle spirit.
Barbara
Our family has truly been blessed by Rolands good influence. Grant, as a teenager, was taught by his side the skill of construction in many aspects. Doing a job the right way first where quailty always counted the most.
ReplyDeleteHe became a good friend as well as an employer. We have enjoyed that friendship as a family throughout the years as he put his trust in us as a subcontractor. He always showed a sincere personal interest in all of us and we will always treasure that friendship.
Our prayers and love are with you as a family at this difficult time. Please know that you can call on any of us for anything.
Love, Grant & Heidi Shupe
To the Family Trump
ReplyDeleteMost of you will not know me or my husband and we have not known Roland for years but that does not diminish the influence in our lives.
My sister in law grew up across the circle from Roland so when we needed our basement finished she recommended him. I work with his sister in law who recommended him. And he had successfully completed a remodel for my in laws who confirmed the recommendations. What a great choice to have him in our home. Of course the obvious would be because of the quality of his work, his patience with his customers and his absolute integrity.
The more sutble reasons it was a good decision was his kindness. We were virtually strangers, "customers" but by the time the project was completed I felt we were friends. This was a very challenging time for us personally as we had a very dear family member with terminal cancer. This family member was young and would leave behind a sweet wife and 5 children when he went. Roland knew of the situation well and was so kind to visit with me each day, listen to me, make me laugh and offer small little pearls of wisdom and encouragement. Each day I looked forward to my visit to the jobsite and a visit with my contractor.
They say imitation is the best form of flattery and I have tried to imitate this behavior of caring for others even strangers. I try to genuinely be interested in others lives, their joys and their sorrows for I have learned from Roland that once you do that there are no strangers (or customers) just friends. It makes us human.
I have followed his progress through this challenge through his sister in law who I work with. I have been touched by his strength, his family's gentle care and the reminder of the influence an individual can have on others. I am grateful for that tender lesson.
May your memories, your love for one another and the blessings of the Gospel bring you peace during this time and in the years to come.
Annette Simmons (Kirk)
In 1989-1990 we hired Roland Trump to make an addition on to our home. We did not know him prior to this time. We found him to be willing to work well with us and allow us to do what we could in the project. He was honest and easy to have in our home around our children.
ReplyDeleteWe continue to enjoy this addition nad his fine workmanship. We think of Roland frequently with gratitude as we enjoy the added area with our family.
We have been sorry to hear of is illness but continued to hear of his concern for others and have grown to appreciate the opportunity to have known him.
We are appreciative of the opportunity to have known him and express our support to his family at this time. Fred and Rella Nelson and Family
Suzie:
ReplyDeleteJudy and I have knowned you and Roland for years, probably when you first moved back to Centerville in the 6th Ward. It's too bad that we got chopped off and put into the 11th Ward because it's like a whole different world. That's not to say that the division was bad because it was an opportunity for growth.
Roland has done a lot of work for us modifying our home to our wishes and dreams. We were really disappointed when he told us he couldn't come a remodel our home this last time around. Doug was great enough to come and do the work for Roland. I'm impressed with Doug and his work ethic which is very much like Roland. Doug looks and talks just like Roland!
I was officiating on the session that was probably Roland's last trip to the Bountiful Temple. You can't possibly know what thoughts went through my head to see him come struggling through that door. How are we all going to get through this?
Afterward I asked him how Suzie was taking all this and he said "We're SCARED!" I told him if there was anything I could do to help him make it easier, to give me a call, which he never did. We were able to see him wheeling around on the motorized wheel chair during the next few months and he had the same cheery disposition as ever.
What a great individual! We will all miss him.
Roger & Judy Christensen
Roland is the best example of what Faith and Prayer should be. I know that these along with his positive attitude is what sustained his life and mobility for so long. Most people don't hire a contractor and then adopt them into their family. But that is what Roland became. We loved him so much. He was family and I felt honored to have him in my home on a daily basis for 6 months. I would make him peanutbutter and honey sandwiches in my bathroom (my temporary kitchen) and he loved them (he was probably just being nice). When the job was done, both Roland and I were a bit sad we would not be seeing each other as much. I'm glad we were still able to have some fun visits. I will miss him so much, but I'm so glad he is free. I love you Roland. Love Trish
ReplyDeleteI am Lori Thomas. We lived in Roland and Suzie's ward for about 3 years. We couldn't have children. Roland and Suzie were so encouraging and helpful as we explored our options and finally adopted. I often think about them and the parents they are. They probably don't realize the influence and help they gave to us.
ReplyDeleteRoland was so approachable and we felt so loved by him. He recently helped my husband and his father. About a year ago we learned my father-in-law also had ALS. Roland made time to sit down and talk about the disease with my husband and his dad. That really helped us all in just hearing and seeing how he had dealt with it. I'm so grateful that Roland had a long time (relatively) through the early stages of the disease and it went so fast at the end. I hope the same for my father-in-law.
Thank you so much Roland and Suzie for continually lifting our hearts and setting an example of hope through two of the most difficult things in our lives. You'll never know how often we reflect on our example and discuss you. You have given us great strength and we love you.
Lori Thomas
Susie knows that Roland and the Stott family have a loving connection. While trying to parent 10 children and work full time as a single mom, I often had numerous needed repairs and handyman jobs. I would THINK about getting them fixed, but Roland, already ahead of me, would call, "Suzanne, you have been on my mind. How can I help you?" It worked that way for almost 18 years. Roland and Susie and I share a great love for each other and Susie has always been gracious to let Roland express his brotherly love for me. My children have an affirming relationship with Roland and they adore him! We will miss him and look forward to seeing him again. Suzanne Stott
ReplyDeleteMy name is Andy McFarland, for most of my young adult years I lived two houses down from Roland Trump. Over the years I had many occasions to be around Roland and learn from him as I was friends with his son Dave. Roland Trump was one of the most service oriented people I have ever met. He truly cared for others and went out of his way to give them Christ-like service.
ReplyDeleteOur neighborhood (mostly Estella Circle residents) would occasionally have get togethers around a bonfire that Roland would make on top of the manhole cover in the center of Estella circle. Late 2008 was the last bonfire I can remember attending and I had the opportunity to ask Roland personally about some rumors I had heard about him dressing up like a transient and visiting the homeless in downtown Salt Lake City. He seemed a little reluctant to talk about his experiences. I think this was because he was such a humble man and he didn’t want to seem self-righteous about his service. I had to press him for a couple minutes before he opened up a little about the experience. I don’t remember everything he said but a couple things and feelings stuck with me. I remember feeling that what he did, and where he went was similar to what the savior would have done. The savior went to the sick, “…they that be whole need not a physician, but they that are sick” (Matthew 9:12). Roland chose to go learn from and uplift those truly in need. I specifically remember him quoting a scripture to me found in Mosiah 4:26 which reads in part, “Administering to their relief, both spiritually and temporally, according to their wants.” Roland emphasized the word “wants” to me as we discussed who to help. I, like others I have spoken with, have had trouble in the past giving money to beggars because I speculate what they will do with the money. Roland believed that it was our responsibility to help and it wasn’t our place to judge.
Roland Trump’s life and example has inspired me to be a better, more service oriented person. He will be missed.
Andy McFarland
Roland is my friend and my cousin. We grew up attending the same school classes and the same ward until graduation. I remember all the fun times we had, the trip our family had to Fish Lake with his family when we were about in the third grade. We played cowboys and Indians in the trees. On Roland and Ronald's birthday, us girls would make them a spice cake because we knew they loved them.
ReplyDeleteAfter graduation, many of us Centerville kids went up the mountain and made up plays. That lasted most of the night. We pulled up into my driveway very early in the morning and some piled out to sleep on the lawn, and some just stayed in the vehicle to sleep. We had a good breakfast knowing that would be the last time we would all be together, as we each would be going different directions now.
The 4th of July was always special and we always had fun. The last 40 years, the only reason I went to the park was to see and visit a few minutes with Roland and Ronald. I love that Roland is my friend and my cousin. I will always have fond memories of our youth and the great example Roland has been in my early life.
Susie, I remember when you and Roland started going together. I'm glad the two of you got married. My love goes out to you and your family.
Leslie Carr Jorgensen
Suzie and family,
ReplyDeleteWendell and I were sorry to hear of Roland's passing and wish to send you our prayers and condolences as friends of yesteryear. We have such fond memories of times spent together in Omaha, Ne back in the days when we were young. We remember the Christmas Eve that Roland and Wendell spent all night putting together a riding toy for our two small sons. Neither Wendell nor Roland would read the instructions but they managed to get it done.
We were blessed to be a part of the beginning of your great family as you brought Michael home. Roland made a great father from the beginning and loved that role.
Roland gave service every where he was. He even took time to come to Fillmore, Ut to help us add a dining room on to our kitchen. Without his help, it may never have gotten done.
Though we haven't kept in touch as much as we would have liked to, we still have a special place in our hearts for Roland and you, Suzie. Please know that we are thinking of you and share in your loss. He was a great man in every way.
Love,
Wendell and Sharon Robison
Roland's Legacy
ReplyDeleteHe was anxiously engaged in the good cause of serving his boys
While he frequently showed interest in their sorrows and joys
He was patient with his boys and waited on the Lord
So they could mount up on the wings of eagles' awards
He taught lessons in quorums and with an example so bright
That many of his boys were led to the temple's light
His prayers were drawn out continually for his boys
To rescue them from the world and its noise
He often took time to reach out to the "one"
With a message of caring or by just having fun
Thank you Roland from fathers, mothers and sons
Our Savior surely said, good and faithful servant, well done
Doug Jeppson
It's hard to express in words the tender feelings about the passing of a loved one. Roland was a fun-loving Uncle, who loved to laugh and have a good time. I loved the twinkle in his bright blue eyes, which reminded me of my own father and grandfather's. Because my Grandpa Robert Trump died when I was only 10 years old, I remember often looking to Uncle Roland to fill that void I had. He reminded me alot of his father, my grandfather, in his looks and mannerisms. I loved growing up just down the street from Roland and Suzie's family and living so close to so many Aunts, Uncles and cousins. I loved how he hugged and loved my children and how he laughed when they would go to him readily as toddlers, thinking that he was their grandfather (being dad's twin brother.)
ReplyDeleteHe was so courageous in his battle with ALS, right to the end. When I saw him last, the Sunday before he passed away, he expressed his love to my children and to all of his brother's children and grandchildren and told me how much he appreciated the love and support of each of us. He named each member of dad's family that had been to visit and expressed his love and appreciation. Even though he was struggling to breathe, he took off his oxygen mask so that he could better talk to my kids and allow them to see him up close, tell them of his love and allow them to express their love. He told me he felt bad he had put off and neglected calling my niece Lindsey (Kristin's daughter) who lives in California, to tell her how much he loves her and appreciated her expressions of love to him. It's difficult to say good-bye to those we love, but it's more difficult to watch them suffer and not to be able to fully participate in life and all the things that have always brought them joy! I am grateful to know that he is happy and free to love and live, without physical restraint, and to be with his parents and brothers who have gone before him. I know from my own personal experiences that there is a life after this one. I know for certain that those we love, who have passed beyond the veil, are never really that far away and that they continue to love and serve the family and they are performing a great work still.
Love to All the Family,
Kerri Trump Erickson
I did not know Roland as well as my brother did, Brian Garlick, but I knew his twin brother Ron very well. From these stories I have read, they were not only identical with their looks, but with their hearts as well.
ReplyDeleteI would like to share a dream I once had...I haven't really shared it with many, but I now feel that I should. Before I had this dream, I had been visiting Ron, Roland's twin, many times. Their mother had already passed away at this time. I was talking with Ron about ALS and he told me that his brother didn't have it. Anyway, one night I had this dream...I was back at the 3rd ward and we were having some sort of ward party. Ron was dancing and so happy. He told me he didn't have ALS anymore, he just woke up and it was gone! I was thrilled! As the party continued...he danced some more, it was silly dancing just so you all can get a visual there :), and as I looked closer, he was dancing with his mom and Roland. I didn't understand that dream at first, until I found out that Roland had ALS. I knew that someday they would be dancing together, which I am sure they are now.
Trump's, you are great examples to us all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Megan (Garlick) Bassett
So many memories as children growing up, all us kids together, school, riding bikes, church, the 4th of July celebrations and the movies at night on the grass. So much fun with all the Centerville kids, it was great! We were lucky to have each other then. We were blessed, I think, and happy then.
ReplyDeleteLater, I found myself a single mom with six children, struggling to make ends meet, getting my education. I began finding little notes of encouragement, financial gifts, jokes, cards etc. always when I needed it the most. It would be when I was in trouble, down to my last dime, or when I had prayed my last prayer. I did not know who it was, or how they knew. Because of that help there were school clothes, milk on the table, gas in my car, just when i didn't know where else to turn. The cards were always the same kind. They made me laugh when I felt like crying. Roland was calling every now and then to say hello, and he would stop and chat when I came home for a visit. He helped my sister Joanie with lots of things too. After awhile, I began to figure it out. Finally, when I was more sure I confronted him and thanked him. He did not confirm my suspicions, but smiled and said something vage like, "you know, I've been so blessed in my life...." , then hugged me. I know it was Roland. I know that the Savior is waiting with open arms to greet him. Susie, I would be there if I could. Bless you and your family. I don't have to tell you how blessed you are to have him for a husband and father for your children, and Roland was just as blessed to have you! Love, Ellen
Roland's daughter Sara is one of my best friends from high school. One of my favorite things about Roland was how he always showed great interest in my life. Every time I was in their home he took the time to come talk to me and ask me about things. Even when I visited when he was very ill he was still so kind and welcoming. There was never a time I felt uncomfortable or unwanted in the Trump home.
ReplyDeleteHe was such a great example of living a positive life and giving service. He will be greatly missed.
Margaret McOmber Smith
I first became acquainted with Roland over 25 years ago when he coached my son, Sam Checketts, in T ball. What a great coach! He continued to be Sam's coach for several more years. But I really learned to love Roland when he showed up at my door with a gallon of milk. It was shortly after my husband, Larry, had died and Roland had this embarrassed look on his face. As he spoke, his eyes teared up and he said, "I know this is pretty stupid, and you probably don't need a gallon of milk, but I've been thinking about you and wanted to see if you need any help--can I check your furnace filter?" This was the first of several visits where he'd just stop by to make sure we were doing okay. He helped out with remodeling both in my Centerville home and then in my Farmington home after I remarried--always so pleasant to be around. He often commented that he hoped if something ever happened to him that someone would come by to help Suzie. I've told countless people about this angel of a man showing up with a gallon of milk and his concern and compassion. He taught me that it is not always important how or what you offer those in need, but rather that you reach out, lift, and serve others. May the Lord pour His comfort and love upon Suzie and Roland's family through those of us who have been blessed by Roland's goodness and service.
ReplyDeleteLisa Checketts Royall
Roland Trump is a straight shooter. He is like his work: Straight, Plumb, True. Built on bedrock. It is a hard thing to see such a decent man called home so soon. Men like Roland are like a rare stone in today's uncertain and counterfeit world. I feel privileged to have known and worked with him over the years. Best of wishes and condolences to his loved ones.
ReplyDeleteDarrell Lake
Susan.
ReplyDeleteAll the wonderful things people have said about Roland are wonderful, but there is always a good woman behind a good man..
Glad I could be there these last few months.
Love You,
Patty Stott
There are not near enough words to describe the way Roland made people feel. He made it unnecessary to doubt if he loved you or not. With just one smile from across the room he always reminded me that I was loved. I did not know Roland very well until I was about 12, but he knew me.
ReplyDeleteWe were having a mutual activity and afterwards he and some of the boys were sitting at a table, they had made up some concoction of gross things, I remember there was a lot of salt involved. He was trying to get one of the boys to eat it for a dollar.
I remember thinking that he was the coolest scout leader.
One time I bore my testimony in sacrament meeting. Later that day, when I was at my grandma's, I got a call on my cell phone. It was Roland. He tract down my cell phone number just to tell me how thankful he was for my testimony. That meant the world to me. Especially for a man of such an amazing testimony himself, to take the time to call a young, shy girl. This impressed me beyond description. From this experience forward I never doubted once that he loved me and that he cared for me.
He enjoyed life. He loved life. He shared life. He is greatest Christlike example that I know personally.
I love you Roland.
Love, Crystal Boyce
As much as Roland loved his boys, he also loved the young women too. Well, maybe not as much, but he cared about our virtue and being the best young women we could be.
ReplyDeleteI have a few really good memories of Roland that I would like to share. Giving Roland a hug and kiss every week after sacrament meeting is one that I will miss the most. I remember in one fast and testimony meeting, he wheeled up the aisle to bear his testimony. While he waited for the person in front of him to finish, he stopped where I was sitting and held my hand. Such a small and simple memory, but it is definitely one of my favorites. Then on another Sunday in young women’s, we all got sticky buns, and after showing mine to Roland, he told me to go sneak one for him. As I was giving him a sticky bun, he said, “Now you have to push my wheelchair so I can eat this.” Everyone had already gone to Sunday school, so we took our time talking as I wheeled him down the quiet hallway. He told me of a story of when he first got his wheelchair and that Tyler was the first person to push him.
I'm so thankful for Roland and his wonderful influence on my brother. Because of him, Tyler is a worthy missionary and it has brought my family so many blessings. I’m also grateful that Tyler was able to talk to Roland on the phone a week or so before he passed away. I know it meant the world much to him.
Thank you, Roland, for your continuous love and charity towards my family and me. I love you,
Emily Andrews
I have been very reluctant to write my memory's of Roland. I think so because i don't want to believe it. But weather or not he is in this world or the next he truly was a great man. I'm sure everyone in the ward or anyone that Roland knew had their fair share of tuff times that he helped them through.
ReplyDeleteBut for me, as far as i know, I have had only three truly best friends in my life that has helped me along my way. One of which was Roland. Most of my memory's of Roland are from church and him always giving me a smile and hug. Asking me how things are going and what's new with me and my life. I remember one particular sunday, he came up to me(wheeled to me) and gave me some papers stabled together with highlights all over it.
He had me read some paragraphs and told me that he would always be here for me if i ever needed someone to talk to. Now, when i was in high school, i didn't take kindly to much help from people. I just wanted to go about my day and hope people wouldn't notice. And most didn't, but Roland did.
The earliest memory of Roland i have is when he would come over every sunday and sometimes on weekdays just to drop in and talk with my mom, i and juli to see how things were going and know if he could help us out in anyway. This is when i first started to feel the love and acknowledgement from Roland.
Ever since then, i have always had Roland watching over me to make sure my family and I were doing good. He's love for everyone in the ward and friends around him could never be replaced. He just had that special kind of heart that comes around once in a while.
Thank you Roland. For everything. You are forever in our hearts.
I love you and I will truly miss you.
Jalene Keller
Butch and Petra Trump- We are Roland's cousins. Following our childhood, we lost contact until 1993 when we asked him to build our dream house. What a wonderful experience that was. Not only the fantastic job of building he did, but getting reacquainted with each other. Roland is one of the finest people we ever met. He was always interested in how you were doing. Even in his time of illness, he would want to know the details of how you and your family were getting along. Roland will be missed deeply by our family but his spirit will live on in our hearts forever.
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Butch & Petra
I am Roland's third cousin but I always referred to him has Uncle Roland. I didn't meet Roland until he built my parent's house but remember hearing stories from my Dad about his cousin Roland. Roland was an amazing man who thought of everyone needs over his own. Roland was always supportive and gave me encouragement during my long wait to adopt Charlee from China. When I brought Charlee home, I couldn't think of anyone better than Roland to give her a blessing. Then when it was time for her to have surgery, I thought of Roland again. I was pleased to hear Roland's excitement and support when he learned of my adoption of my precious daughter, Natalee.
ReplyDeleteWe will miss you, Roland. You will live in our hearts forever.
Love,
Yvette, Charlee, and Natalee Trump
We met Roland Trump more than ten years ago when we chose him to do some remodel add-on work at our house. Subsequent to that project he did another major project in our basement. Both times that he was here on the job were very good experiences. He was who he said he was and did what he said he would do. He did not "nickel and dime" us to death. We agreed on a price and that was what the invoice read. On the last project, there was a jetted tub and Sharla asked him about hand rails for it. He said: "you do not need hand rails, if you ever do I will come and put them on for you." Well we still don't need them but I guess Adam will have to be the one to come by when we do.
ReplyDeleteLast year we decided to do a major redo of our Kitchen and family room. We called Roland. He said he could not do it but he told us of someone else that he knew who would do a good job. He was correct and we are happy about that.
We never know what tomorrow will bring. We are very thankful that yesterday brought Roland into our lives. We have no doubt about his current status. We are thankful to have known him. We are hopeful that we can follow his lead and the advise of Jesus Christ when he said: "Go and do likewise." Hopefully, we can live our lives in a similar manner as Roland Trump. Max and Sharla Fillmore
Papa Roland will always hold a spot in my heart. He took the roll as my second dad. I always looked forward to when my phone would light up and it was Roland calling to harass me about life. He truly did care and wanted the best for me. Questions about life and of course the men in it would always come up. They have to be good boys who know how to work hard and hold the priesthood. Sorry I never dated your nephew, and a Shupe can't be in the family by blood.
ReplyDeleteNow he gets to watch over me in a new place, and I get to feel of his love through the spirit. I trully will keep my promise to him and find that right man who can work hard and be active in the gospel. Roland left a great example to all of us. Love you forever and ever. Amy Shupe
I am Elder Andrews, formerly known as Tyler or Ty. My mother will post this.
ReplyDeleteDad (Roland) is a big reason why I am here serving Heavenly Father in the Japan Kobe Mission. In college as I was searching for what to do with life Roland would call almost weekly just to say hi. "I've been thinking about you," he would say. Always, before hanging up he'd tell me, "Tyler, just be where you're supposed to be, doing what you are supposed to be doing."
A couple weeks ago I was priviledged to speak to Dad from a pay phone, next to the Wakayama train station. My mission president was kind enough to let me do so. To me Dad is still home waiting till I get back in August. I'm just bummed out that we won't be able to go to another Bee's game, or to another Flaming Gorge trip. We won't be able to go through the drive-thru of A&W backwards and hear Chris yelling to order eight root beer ice cream cones. We won't be able to sit in the parked Suburban watching people run into the automatic door that we turned off at Target (Dads idea). But I know, thanks to our Heavenly Father, I'll be able to see Dad. I'm happy for him. He's still telling me to be where I'm supposed to be, doing what I'm supposed to be doing.
Thanks Dad. See ya Dad
My grandfather used a simple cliche, "you'll have to get up pretty early to outwit me". That was Roland in a "nutshell". We moved next to Roland 4 1/2 yrs ago and from day one it was days and years of innumerable pranks, visits, heart to heart talks and just plain ole' fun and never ending excitement.
ReplyDeleteNot a day went by from spring through fall that I didn't wonder what I would see when I drove into my driveway. The downstairs doorbell would ring at all hours, the garbage cans would either be in my garage making it difficult to drive in and park or in front of the garage door or at my front door. There was caution tap tied to my trees with cones in the driveway and caution tap tied under my car which took 1/2 a day to find. There were circle campfires, with hotdog and marshmellow roasts, long hours by the fire of which Roland would be the last to leave with stories and songs. Roland loved a good campfire. With Roland as your neighbor life was always and adventure.
There were only 3 different occasions where I think perhaps we got even on the pranks - they being the time we put his house up for sale and put signs at the stop sign in the yard, and at the corner of the circle. Numerous people drove by and called Suzie and Roland, it made for an eventful weekend. His 61st Birthday when we had a surprise guest come who made him dress up and participate and shared stories about Roland. My how he was embarrassed for one moment! No matter what he was a great sport. And the time he woke to a decorated truck.
My son and daughters will miss baseball and basketball games and the visits.
And every time I look at my garbage cans I will think of him, as I walk through my home I will see his handiwork, and I will miss doing pranks with him and miss those conversations.
We are better for having known Roland and when we have the circle campfires throughout the years we will remember him and the legacy he left each of us.
We know he is at peace now and once settled in, I am sure he'll be pulling pranks again.
Suzie and Family we appreciate you and look forward to many years of neighborhood parties and activities. You're in our thoughts and prayers at this time and always.
Love Always!
Craig and Joni Lorscheider and Sara, Heidi and Spencer
I haven't seen Bro. Trump since high school...12 years, but he always greeted me with a hug and I knew he really cared about me and my life. I'm sorry Trumps for your loss.
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I am amazed at the lives touched by Roland. But not, because he touched my life the same way. I am a friend of Sara's, and we often bonded over the special relationship each of us had with our dads. When I met Roland, I could see why he was so special. He treats everyone as if they are the most interesting person he's ever met. What amazes me most is that ALS didn't take that away from him- he became (if possible) more grateful for life and seemed to make extra effort to make people feel important.
ReplyDeleteHe was a wonderful example to me of attitude and love. I will never forget Roland- love to the Trump family.
Rhonda Williams
One of the greatest blessings in my life was to call Roland my father in law. Many people have experienced the love and service he continuously gave and I was lucky enough to feel it as a daughter. When Adam introduced us for the first time, his face lit up and he immediately hugged me. What a welcome he gave me into the Trump family! He reminded me several times after that experience that we must have known each other in the pre-existance because of that instant bond. And that's how it remained throughout our time together.
ReplyDeleteAs I have reflected on the memories and time spend with Roland, many tears have filled my eyes. He was a man of amazing character. He was thoughtful - from his gifts to me of old rock house figures and brushed silver door hinges to frequent phone calls on my cell phone just to say hello. He was giving - in his countless hours helping Adam on our homes to giving five to ten dollars to the person who could best guess the check amount when he'd take us all out to dinner. He was playful - in his four-wheeler maps for my boys and his dumping of salt or sugar on the restaurant table to draw pictures in the piles with the kids. He was tender - in his prayers at the dinner table and whenever he talked about Suzie.
Words really can't describe the kind of father in law and grandpa he was. He is a treasure buried deep in our hearts whose presence will always be felt.
Favorite Father in Law - Thank you for raising a son who treats his family like royalty with unwavering faith and thank you for always treating me like I was meant for your family. Till I see you again when this time MY face will light up with an immediate hug. I can't wait!
Love always, Tiffany
Roland holds a special place in the hearts of our family. He has hundreds of friends and admirerers, but he always made us feel like we were the most important people in the world when we were visiting with him. We first got to know him while he remodeled our house, and like so many others, by the time he finished we felt like we'd been friends forever. He was such a great example of going the extra mile both in work and in service. We will never forget the time he came unexpectedly to our house one night to take our son out for ice cream. That meant so much to Matt and to us as parents of a child who has a difficult time making friends. When matt would be sitting in the foyer of church during Sunday School, Roland would stop and talk to him each week. We are so grateful for his kindness and encouragement to each member of our family, and to us as parents as we struggled through the challenges of life. We will miss him and his wisdom, kindness and insight into life.
ReplyDeleteMay the Lord bless you, his wonderful family, with peace and strength during this difficult transition in your lives.
Love, Clay and Carol Bake and Family
One of the highlights of my life as a young boy was going to the Trump home to tend the kids while Bob and Estella went out for an evening. A pool game with Roland and Ronald was always a fun experience even though I AWAYS came out the loser. My memory bank is full of fond memories of my association with Roland. He did two major remodels on our home and each time the work was flawless. But far more important than the quality of his work is the quality of his character. His Grandfather Trump (my stepfather) used to say..."Anyone will do business with you once, the real test is if they'll do business with you twice". The countless number of people over the years that did business with Roland over and over again speaks volumes as to the character and integrity of this wonderful man. I truly can't think of another human being in my lifetime that better exemplifies the qualities of Christlike love better than our friend Roland. I have two favorite definitions of character that fit Roland to a "T". "The character of a person is defined by how they treat people who can do nothing for them" and "The character of a person is defined by what they leave growing". If there is better evidence in the life of an individual in living the realities of these two definitions them I haven't met him/her. And what is so impressive to me is that Roland went about doing good with no fanfare, no bands playing, and no drawing of the attention to him. His was (is) a humble life. I am honored to know him and blessed because of our association. The best thing Mr. Roland Trump ever did was to marry Ms. Susan. What a team they make and how many lives they have blessed with their love and Christlike charity. May the Lord bless his family with the peace and courage to sustain them. With much love, Dave Hill (and family)
ReplyDeleteMy name is Katie Thompson. Roland is my grandpa's , Ronald Trump,identical twin brother. After my grandpa died, Roland came right in and started where my grandpa had left off. Roland would always take us out to dinner and get treats and stuff like that. He is one of the most amazing men I have met. I love him with all of my heart, might, mind, and strength. He will always be my grandpa. I love you Roland.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this website. It has helped me to see a side of Roland that I didn't know about. It has also helped me to change some of the feelings I have had way in the background for 58 years.
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